You’ve given me something to think about. I like the idea that even when things turn out positively, you can still have regrets—because if given the chance, you might choose differently. I think that’s how it is for many people who have kids. They don’t necessarily regret having them, but if they had the opportunity to redo their choices, some might decide not to. It’s a complicated feeling, balancing love and the life you’ve lived with the ‘what-ifs.’