A thought-provoking piece. I find it particularly intriguing as I am currently back in my hometown, cherishing precious moments with my uncle in the final stages of his life.

In contrast to my mother, who passed away in 2020 and had a profound fear of death, I believe her apprehension stemmed from a sense of unfulfilled achievement. Unfortunately, this fear ultimately paralyzed her, leading to a period of inactivity and frequent hospital visits as her health deteriorated. Surprisingly, her passing came suddenly with a heart attack during a hospital stay. I hope that she has found the peace that eluded her during her last years.

Conversely, my grandmother's experience was quite different. Much like my uncle now, her impending passing was evident, and the process was embraced. She lived long enough to see all her children pass away and had the opportunity to spend her final days with her grandchildren. Her peaceful passing at home left a profound sense that she had transitioned to what lay beyond. My grandmother's unwavering belief in heaven gave her a readiness for the next phase, and I have faith that she has found the peace she always knew in her next existence.

The ideas you've introduced about contemplating one's own death are new to me, and I'm eager to explore them further. Do you ponder the circumstances of your own demise, or do you skip that consideration and focus solely on what comes afterward?

I appreciate you sharing these insights with us. May you continue to lead a meaningful life, and when the time comes, may your passage be as you envision.